Tigerlily, a cast member from Before the 90 Days season 7, recently made a statement on Instagram that has sparked controversy. Her comments, along with her husband Adnan's behavior on the Tell All, suggest that they both have a superiority complex and believe they are better than their fellow cast members.
During Part 1 of the Tell All, Tigerlily allowed her husband, Adnan, to handle most of the arguments and altercations with other cast members. While Adnan managed to hold his ground in many situations, his responses often came across as hotheaded and arrogant. He dismissed other people's opinions, even when they made sense, further fueling the perception of their superiority complex.
A fan suggested on Instagram that Tigerlily should befriend fellow cast member Vanja, who had given valuable advice to others. However, Tigerlily's response was dismissive and judgmental.
Tigerlily stated that she had no interest in taking advice from a woman who, in her view, gave herself too easily to men before marriage and dressed in a way that gave men the wrong impression. Tigerlily's harsh words highlighted her belief that she and Adnan were above others, including Vanja. On the surface, Tigerlily's point might seem valid, as she is married to a man who loves and "respects" her, and they have recently had a baby together.
Despite Tigerlily's outward appearance of having a perfect marriage, the reality is far from ideal. At 42 years old, she has had to give up her identity and let her 23-year-old husband rule every aspect of her life to keep him happy. This includes having a baby after 40, something she would not have chosen if she had a say in the matter. Tigerlily did this mainly because she knows that her younger husband might eventually leave her if she doesn't give him at least a couple of kids.
According to Tigerlily's Instagram story, she believes that Vanja is desperate and gives herself too easily to men, which leads them to leave her soon after they become romantically involved. This belief further underscores Tigerlily's sense of superiority and judgment towards others.
